Real men also use hand cream to help to keep their hands smooth. If you want to put your hands all over her, she'll love you for it when you keep them as soft as possible.
I'll actually disagree with you here, Cinco. Perhaps some women want their man to have soft hands, but many women love a pair of strong, masculine hands, complete with callouses. It goes to the masculine/feminine dynamic: soft curves vs. hard muscles, soft, feminine hands with long fingernails vs. 'workman's' hands.
I know that my own wife misses the calloused, stronger hands of my youth, when I worked in the field and down in the plants, as compared to the softer, 'keyboard' hands that I have now from working in my comfy office at the university.
'Tis the price we pay for better pay. I also have to specifically "work out" now to stay in shape --> 'working out' used to simply be part of the job. That part, I miss.
-- B.
Last edited by Bagheera; 08/19/0802:32 PM.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
