I had to call him today. It was a short convo, I asked my que, got the answer. H was friendly but distant and very composed. I couldn't read his emotions, something I'm normally very good at.
I don't know what to make out of it, so I stopped trying to analize his tone.
I've been reading and rereading the excellent post by TwinDad in newcomers, on detachment.
Quote:
Acceptance - Accept (really accept) that this is the sitch that you are in.
I've never REALLY accepted it, I guess. Until a couple days ago
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08