Hi Tipper, ST and Matt. Thanks for the advice! I do feel better this week- I think I was PMSing last week so everything looked worse than it was.
I don't have the KLA tapes, but I will look into it.
Since h moved out, I have been trying to do the little things around the house myself. Since he's been back, I find myself slipping back a bit to having these expecations. I mean, I'm not asking him to build an addition to the house, just do some small things for me (can you guess what my LL is?) Anyway, I hung that &$^*@& toilet paper holder last week and it looks great. Yay me! The main issue that REALLY has been bothering me is the credit card debt and the calls from a collection agency. It's a bit more serious than hanging a new tp holder. I mention to him when the company calls, he tells me he's going to work something out with them, but then it continues. It's not something that I can just take over and do myself, so I'm not sure how to deal with it.
The weekend was pretty nice. On Sat., we had a yard sale and we got rid of some of our stuff, but not as much as I had hoped. So unfortunately our garage is still a disaster. On Sat. night, we went out to dinner with a friend and her bf. A nice date night. Then on Sun. we went to a small family bday party for h's mom. We've also been spending a lot of time watching the Olympics together and I am now more sleep-deprived than usual!
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Before all of this happened I was not really happy with what our marriage had become either. Now don't get me wrong I am happy that we are working on things but I am not going to accept just anything.
Matt, I feel the same way, but what exactly does that mean? What are we going to do to show that we are not accepting something?
