There really isn't much I can say. You have all of this pegged!
- You Recognized his actions for what they were, the MLC retreating back into the tunnel for a little bit - You handled it perfectly - You are right, you are not keeping him there, he could leave if he wanted to.....I don't see his bag packed
You probably know that this coming out of and retreating into the tunnel is pretty common for a MLCer. He may have even been a little ashamed of himself.
I think the difference between a normal middle aged man and a MLCer is that the normal one would have enjoyed the attention and thought fondly about his youth.....the MLCer thinks he still has a chance.....lol
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The question is, will he ever love me again?
Wrong question, the question should be will he ever love himself again.....probably
I just have one more thing to say....
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He used to think that I was hot. His friends and coworkers still do. I feel pretty good about myself…until I look at me thru his eyes.
Why would you ever look at yourself through foggy glasses....would you expect to see the real you?
I thought it was pretty cool that his Inspector really noticed you. You are beautiful and strong person......period. Your beauty will only increase as you continue to exude confidence and become the rock in the R.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
