Trusting so sorry you are going through this. It's interesting the convo with your h. It sounds like he wants to open up to you, but doesn't want to burden you right now with what is going on with him.

I know that my h said something similar a while back. He said that I had enough to deal with and that he didn't want me to have to deal with his issues too.

Nice of you to lend a listening ear. Continue to do what is working for you. Hugs!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"