ITH has some good points. Don't sell yourself out if it is not what youwant as well.....compromising is good and maybe even a little beyond....but if you sell out completely then he may not respect you. It is good that you are talking openly about it.
Have you two talked about what you can afford with the much reduced income? Significant reductions in income create stresses of their own along with lifestyle changes.
Is your intention to completely cut ties or just create some distance and space? I can definitely see where the connection is too strong now, but to what extent do you plan on going?
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
