Hi cw68, just came back from my vacation. Once things get clear, the feeling of being able to be honest to yourself about the person you were married to, is ... funny, revealing, isnt it? No need to defend, hide, excuse, justify their actions. I know I see now what he does for what it is. Nothing more.
There is that guy out there for you. And I bet he will treat you like you should be treated. With respect and love. K