Let me just get it clear for my sake. Do you owe her money for the credit card bills? Are these expenses that she incurred during the marriage in which you are also responsible for? I'm only trying to think about why she's so frustrated.
Obviously, being single isn't quite what she thought it would be. At least, not from a financial standpoint. But, she often brings money into the arguements. In fact, all of the recent arguements are about money and possessions. Seems like she can't complain about you anymore, so she has to complain about something.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."