NikB #28 (Piecing for sure & rings are on!)

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Michelle - same bug?? Ick, I'm sorry!! It's no fun at all.

ST and Jak
Movie is "The Mummy" (latest version, not sure what it's called). Not really my type usually but I'll go for it to hang out w/a friend.

As to DB..

H doesn't exactly know about the site. He knows I "talk to friends from a support website" and that I went on road trip to "visit friends from a support site" but technically that's it.

Usually I only get on here when he's asleep or not around.

A few times he was playing video games and I thought TOTALLY not paying attention to what I was doing, but if I pulled up a long post he'd ask "So who emailed you? What's that?" I told him it wasn't an email to me just a general update from a friend to friends. It's happened enough that I realize I need to not read here when he's watching, though.

I don't THINK he's tech-savvy enough to find the site and I'm not sure he's motivated to bother.. but I do try to be conscious of it. Esp. with this weekend when I was online SO much he kept coming in and saying "STILL talking to your friend/s??" So I need to watch it a bit.

On the flip side.. I probably do need to be a little more open about what it is/where I'm posting. I'm just sooo hesitant. About everything I guess, this included. I'm really not ready for him to see my posts.

An out there question.. you know how during "LRT" we're told to never say "ILY" because it reminds them? LOTS of times lately I've felt like one or both of us wanted to say it but didn't because we're not "supposed" to. Esp. given that me putting on my rings precipitated him putting on his ring... what do you all think? I'm kinda thinking throw a few ILYs out there and see what happens?