One other thing D17 said was that it is better to make her leave now rather than wait until she gets into a full blown relationship and moves out to go live with some guy.
She also said "Dad, you don't NEED her".
I talked with a friend tonight. The advice, which I need to pray on, is to tell her tomorrow that I told her my boundary and since she has committed adultery she has to leave. Now. And that she needs to start the divorce process.
Command respect. It's been way too long. Let her know that I love her but I won't let her destroy me.
