I was thinking of the women who will hit on married men because they are "safe" and they must be honorable, right, because they are married. For some women, a married man is more attractive because they can have all the excitement, without any of the commitment.
After my D, I had two M women tell me that I should date M men while I was healing b/c there is no risk of commitment!
One of the M women is on her second M. She left her first H because he cheated on her. And she slept with M men after her D b/c she didn't want to deal with men that wanted a commitment!
I don't see the attraction myself. A M man is a eunich as far as I am concerned.
