I just re-read my post. I am so sorry - it does read like a come-on!
While there are couples that go to this resort, it is actually an all adult resort that caters to singles - primarily burned out professionals from all over the world looking for a place to just go and land w/o having to plan anything. It is one of the few places that is structured so that single women feel "safe" going there alone. Everything is arranged with the goal of encouraging mingling among the guests and with the staff. The staff consists of some of the most attractive men and women I have ever seem from all over the world. You can "mingle" as little or as much as you want.
I highly recommend going there after you are D - but with male friends - that will not share what happens there with your future R's. Most of my friends that went there went in the 90's when it was much wilder and are M now. When they talk about it - they get this huge smile on their face - and well there are some things that you do when you are single that you can talk about with friends - but really cannot share with a spouse.
I am glad your dad is there for you. My dad flew in and stayed with me while I was seeing Michele and during the toughest parts of the D process. There were times when he literally carried me.
Most of my friends that went there went in the 90's when it was much wilder and are M now. When they talk about it - they get this huge smile on their face - and well there are some things that you do when you are single that you can talk about with friends - but really cannot share with a spouse. 