Where do I go from here? pt. 2

[tpaschal]

nlt,

I know I've read your thread, too, though I don't think I've posted to you. It seems that all of us here have different stories with way too many similarities. I'm sorry that you've gone through so much in such a short time.

I'm quite sure my H will be married to the bimbo within just a month or two (or just a week or two?) of the D being final. I'm not sure it's what he really wants anymore, but I think he's too proud or too confused to put a stop to it.

I'm not sure if I'll be able to "stand" any longer if H marries the parasite. I may need to close the door completely, like Cagz is talking about, just to be able to move forward with my own life.

I'm pretty sure H'll end up regretting all of this someday, but it may take YEARS. One of my best girlfriends went through an MLC divorce at age 40, is now 52, and her stupid xh (who did marry the younger bimbo and have 2 kids with her) is just now admitting that it was a huge mistake. Too late now, buddy!

<sigh>

Thanks for looking in on me. Hope you have a good week.