Wow, you are making such great progress. And I totally understand the "wanting it back NOW" thing. Heck, you are WAY ahead of me, I still have an H who feels NOTHING for me (that's what he says anyway), and yet I try to rush it. Yet when I read your threads, it seems so clear all the success you are having.

I think it's hard for us to look at our own sitch's objectively. You are doing awesome though. Really. You have such great things to hold on to, and to have hope in. Hang in there, and keep DBing your booty off. It's paying off!

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!