Thanks, Tal, I hope you're right -- I sure hope I can do better next time, as I am beginning to doubt I have ever been a good judge of W's character.
I've had this same thought too! But I'm thinking in my case and maybe yours too, I think when you love someone you do tend to see them with rose-colored glasses and that's not a bad thing maybe.
But I know my H has changed a lot the past 2 years, having an affair, putting himself in front of the kids and doing a lot of immoral stuff. I mean he was a Sunday School teacher 3 years ago and more religious than I. Yeah, he was always a bit selfish and self-centered, but the past year or 2 he's off the charts I think. I mean honestly if you met your W now I don't think you'd spend more than 2 minutes with her if that and would never get involved with her now. If I met my H now, I wouldn't give him 2 seconds!!! Karen
