Well girl all I can say is too bad we cant talk ....

I am going through the same thing almost at least your H gives some kind of response where mine says nothing...the silence kills me...he doesnt want to say anything and wants me to leave cause he know he is hurting me...other than not much is said...
His OW is a nothing....no education etc...no job...and yet my H is having a fit cause I have spent money....long story...plus I quit my job thinking that was going to help the family ....anyways long long story.....

so if you need to vent I am here ...my Hs OW had baby last month and it is to deal with and most of all I want to know why???????

take care