Well, I spoke with my MIL, she has disgusted me lately in how she is dealing with all of this, and today was no exception.

She says that if I can just wait till spring, "No one knows what might happen!" and she says that he ended the affair, because it was just too hard all around, I know for a fact that she dumped his a$$. She told me that HE needs this time to heal... ex-freaking-scuse me? He needs to heal? Maybe he needs time to heal the gonorrhea rash he got, but I should not have to hear about how HE needs to heal because HE has been hurt.

Give me a break. You just keep patting him on the head and telling him it will be okay instead of telling him hes being a child..

Sorry, purgatory does not suit me, I may not understand whats happening right now, but I will not accept that I should wait 8 months so HE (of all the people) can heal...

Last edited by bluerain; 08/19/08 02:54 AM.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...