[quote=Virtually_Handsome I thought the last bail out was the last bail out? I just have to be a little skepical there, I don't know why!
It is going to be hard for him to stop the gambling, I think he has proven that. And I am not convinced he really wants to. But time will tell on that!
You know, you are sounding good, though! So keep that up, and keep up your positive attitude! I like what you are doing![/quote]
Hey Handsome! No, the "last bail out" convo was on Sunday and apparently the actual money was loaned today...lol. Whatever!!!
I'm glad that he actually went 18 days without gambling, that was a record for him, but I know that unless he is really ready to be done, then it won't happen. So your skepicism matches my own.
I'm trying to keep a positive attitude and its easier when I expect nothing and then just live my life. I get sucked in, but not nearly as often or as deep as before, I just can't.
I did think it was a positive step for him to be the one actually seeking IC, without any prompt or anything from me. At least this shows he wants it, not having it forced upon him. About the other stuff, thats just what it is, other stuff.
We shall see....
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option