Originally Posted By: glamgirl
No r talk, no talk of asking him to come home, just listened to him attentiively. The hard part is walking him to the door and hugs and kisses and then wave goodbye. That part is so old.

Any suggestions on how to cope with the goodbye at the end? It just seems so permanent.

PH how is your work going? It sounded like you were having a rough week.
glam,
Good job in zipping your lips regarding moving home talk! I think you're doing so well with the intimacy, planning for the future, etc - many many gems from your H. Remember to be grateful. Praise and thank God for these things. Your H will come home soon enough, I think.

Don't focus on the goodbyes being old or permanent. Just say goodbye back sweetly and as sweetly as you can so he can see even more how much he's missing, and start to wonder why he is even saying goodbye to you...

Work is OK, still stressful. I am just going to do the best I can, that's all I can do and be.

Thanks for asking. God sent me a few angels yesterday. A couple of ladies from Church called to say Hi can check on me. So that really touched my heart.

And I got some good advice about finding a prayer group which I am going to work on this week.

Last edited by plentyhope; 08/19/08 02:30 AM.

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