(((A&F))) I'm so sorry that you are here, but I'm pretty sure right now I'm the closest person that "gets" what you are going through. I'll warn you right up front though, I'm not great at DB'ing, but its worth it.
My H and his OW are about 12 weeks away from the birth of what she hopes is his baby.
My questions to you are these:
What do you want in terms of your marriage and your R?
What led to the problems you two have/have had and what if anything has been done to correct them? IC, MC, etc...
How does this baby change the answers to the first two questions?
What have you done to help yourself?
This aspect only adds so much more pain and confusion to an already horrible situation. I'm here for you if you need me and I'll try and give you the best advice I can.
((((hugs))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
