Caution Major venting, wining, and all around confusion.
I am tired heres the big stuff
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I am way confused. SHE WILL NOT RUN ME INTO A D!!! she will have to do it her self, but other then struborness tonight I am not sure why I am still in this, and not in some OW bed, and unlike her I would not have o settle for a loser.
Hi there JWS. I feel your pain and I've walked that path. I was over on Infidelity for a while and there were two recommended paths to follow. Path one was to verify there was in fact an affair and to broadcast it to the wayward spouse and everyone. Path two was to quietly implement the DB techniques with a passion. I chose path number two. The one thing that I had to make an uneasy peace with is that I have no control over what my W does.
I can empathize with every thing you've said. No, you don't have to put up with this kind of treatment. Yes, you could be with someone who would treat you better than you are being treated now.
Is that what you really want?
I don't know that answer either, there are many here who understand completely.
