Trusting, I am so sorry about your mom. I have been dealing with that sort of stress too. My mom does not remember my H any more.
I believe your H is beginning to reach out to you. But please ensure that you are taking care of yourself now. You have so much on your plate to deal with....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D