Why would it matter IF she is watching and testing? Are you going to behave differently if you know she is?
One thing us DAMLBS's have to do: make the changes for us. Not them.E
Of course not. I know my wife notices the changes...if she makes comments about them not being real, she obviously sees them and is paying attention.
I would like to know that she is watching and HOPING they are real and permanent, rather than watching and being completely indifferent to what she sees.
