((((GFI and Michelle))) thanks to both of you and I'm not going to get dragged into it. I mean a part of me still holds out some hope for us, but if he could even begin to start fixing himself, then that would probably be enough.

I hope that same thing, but I'm very skeptical still. I believe only what I see and although I've seen some positive changes, there isn't anything for me to hang my hat on.

Now that the time is short, she is due in the middle of November and its the middle of August, things are becoming more "real" and he is realizing that he has frittered away a lot of the time he could have been using to make some changes. If it makes him a better father to my kids then I guess it will have been worth it.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option