Hi Grant: My H and I don't do well with confrontation either, and I think that is one of the major problems. I don't think confrontation needs to be screaming and yelling, but when we don't address the problems we end up where we all are now.
That being said, now is a whole other ball game. I have found that just going with the flow is the best way. Don't try to push, don't try to control. It is very hard once we get into these situations to remember that it is not just us hurting...the other person hurts as well.
Sometimes, though, we all need to make our mistakes and learn from them. That is one possibility w/ your W now. It is almost like dealing with a toddler or a teenager, the more you tell them not to do something, the more they will. The hard part is stepping back and allowing them to make their mistakes while praying that they learn from them.
Just remember to breath...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
