*Shave, pluck, trim, etc. Most women are already doing all the shaving trimming and plucking. But men need to pay attention to this, too!...But women also love it if you can at least "tame" the nether regions....
In that region, my own rule of thumb for the past few months has been: if I want my partner's mouth to go there, I shave it. And where I leave the hair, it gets trimmed.
It works.
One of the ironic indications of my SSM recover: I grew a beard in one place (my face) and lost the beard in another.
The things I do for love...
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
