Thank you for your input. So I was just wanting someone to agree with me LOL. You are right I will let d9 go.
As for the second question. I did not tell d6 that her dad would spend time with us. She misunderstood. I just wanted to know if it was a good idea to do family outings with h. Is it good for the ds or not? I don't really want to but if it is good for my ds I would do it.
