Originally Posted By: ndsmhelp

The statement from cookie would really make me feel good if I knew my wife was at a point where she was watching and testing....guess she wouldn't tell me, though..Right??


Why would it matter IF she is watching and testing? Are you going to behave differently if you know she is?

One thing us DAMLBS's have to do: make the changes for us. Not them.

It doesn't matter IF they are watching, testing, etc. You should do what you feel to be right and good and for the benefit of the overall well being regardless of what SHE is doing.

Nuff said.


Me: 30
W: 27
Married: 9/2007
ILUBNILWU: 1/2008
W moved out 5/24/2008
W suicide 8/25/2009