Oh, believe me, I am full of relish - and XOM does deserve it. Shortly after W returned to our M, XOM said something like "You owe me another chance", to which W replied - "No, I owe it to my husband, and that is not you." That's my girl!

SD8 and I have a pretty good R, though sometimes she gets possessive towards W, which means I am in the way. But overall she has accepted me nicely. D14 is a tough one, and it is easy for her to keep those walls up and strong. But it doesn't have to be that way, Kerry. I bet you will handle your kids and any family "additions" that might come along in the future very well. You're a great father, and hopefully your STBX won't try to undermine your efforts in this regard as my XW has (I'm not saying it is all XW's fault, just that she has contributed).


Me45 W35 M6 T8
D16 SD11 D0
Dec 07: Bomb
July 08: Busted!
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