He's got you hanging on a string though Ali... the problem really is that he's yanking you any which way his mood swings. I'm not even saying it's on purpose... I'm just saying it's the end result.
FWIW The no sleep thing IS a by product of certain ADs. Some people react to them by not being able to sleep. I actually have sleeping pills to help me sleep... I wouldn't be with out them...and my ADs. I have a few other friends on various other pill versions of ADs with the same problems, so there is truth to that. That aside, yes there are times that I want to just roll into a ball like your guy is saying. But it does sound like he's using stuff as an excuse. Perhaps though this is more reflection on him than anything to do with you. Sometimes it's just easy to slip into "victim" mode. It really is. Yeah... there are days I still feel all sorry for my little ole self etc,... and other days I can go wack golf balls. Some folks depression is just more complex than others. If he's all over the map... he may be for a very long time. It's not a reflection on you, it's a reflection on his problems and how he is handling them. And YES... in some respects choosing to handle them. He does sound like he spends way too much time feeling sorry for himself and like VH says... maybe he feels too flawed.
Never the less... you need to take care of you. If he's able to put you in such a funk cuz he doesn't phone... you need to find a good place for you. Only you can answer where that will be.
*Hugs* Abbey
Last edited by Abbey; 08/18/0806:43 PM.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
