I think your plan of postponing R talk until D leaves for college is the way to go.
Addie, I'm coming with her. I want to meet her professors and check out the apt. She's going to rent a 2-bedroom with another girl (F from school) and I think they can use my help. I'll be away for a week and H will be alone here, packing and taking care of our pets. We're not going to have the R talk until Sept 2! I think sgoing through our stuff will remind him of some not-so-bad times...
H didn't call today as well.
What kind of drama goes on now... I don't want to know !
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
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