I had a great weekend and hope you all did as well. As usual, we had lots of great sex, kissing, played dress up, all that fun stuff.
I wanted to make a list of fun little "sex tips" and invite anyone else to share their own as well! These are not tips about skills or acts...just general little fun stuff.
*Temporary tattoos! There are vending machines (usually near the toys and candy and gum machines) in various supermarkets, which dispense temporary tattoos. They look very real these days! I buy some everytime I am at the stores that have them. First - it is fun to be like a kid, and not know which tattoo you are going to receive. (Will I get the skull and cross bones with a pirate hat, or the butterfly wrapped in barb wire?) And second, they can be very sexy and fun and best of all, TEMPORARY! They are a great addition to a sexy outfit, so if I am dressed like a goth girl tramp for sex some night, I can dig out a dark goth girl tattoo of roses and skulls...but if I am in a school girl outfit, I can dig out a unicorn tattoo! Placement is also fun. Put a tattoo in the right place, and you've got something fun to look at during your intimate times. Whee! Also....I like putting them on him, too. We girls like having something fun to look at too, sometimes. Just remember to take them off before a doctor's appointment or going to the gym! LOL!
*Hygiene! OK everyone knows, yeah yeah, hygiene...but really, HYGIENE. Really scrub up and thoroughly wash up down there! Front, back, and sideways! I run to the bathroom and do an additional wash up as soon as I know we are about to have sex, on top of my normal shower. And then of course, add something that smells nice, too.
*Email, Text....send suggestive text or emails to your partner every once in a while. Not every day or it loses some of its fun, but out of the blue makes them think "wow, what's gotten into him/her?"
*Stretch. Everyone needs to stretch, but most people don't do it. Being a gymnast, I was lucky enough to lay the groundwork to a lifetime of flexibility for myself, but I still must stretch. Do you know that your body stores toxins that are released when you stretch? And when you stretch, you oxenigate your muscles and your blood flow. This can cause temporary pain, but after you are done, you will feel a bit of a "high" from it. Stretch at least a little bit every day and by the time you are ready for sex, you will be more limber than you normally are.
*Shave, pluck, trim, etc. Most women are already doing all the shaving trimming and plucking. But men need to pay attention to this, too! My ex-h had some funky one inch long eyebrows that desperately needed to be cut or plucked. I used to beg him to do that. He refused. He thought it was "funny" that they "bothered me so much". Humph. And he wondered why I had lost my attraction to him? I'm just trying to make the point that women DO notice these things, especially since we are already plucking, shaving, waxing and trimming everything on our bodies. Ear hairs, nose hairs, unruly eyebrows - - those are top priority. But women also love it if you can at least "tame" the nether regions and I personally like it when my man also trims his armpits down to a short fur. Then I can nuzzle in it (remember, impeccible hygiene first) and its not so long that one hair may wrap around my neck.
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I will be back with more and as I said, please feel free to join in if anyone has one to share!
