W had kids the past 8 days. She never once let me know what she was doing with the kids even though she demanded that from me the week prior.
Even before the week I took the kids, she had made some effort to 'be friends'. This involved going out to dinner with the kids. She would not go out by herself with me because she didnt want to send the wrong message. But, I guess it's ok for her to send the 'wrong message' to her kids by portrayng everything is hunky dory if we go out as a family. Strange logic.
I'm posting because I want to journal more of her selfishness. I dont want anyone to think I havent been GAL and I have not been focused on W at all the past two weeks. We havent talked for two weeks. I have been taking care of myself and focusing on myself. No Texts, emails, or calls to her.
Before I get to that, I have been very busy while the kids were gone. I was away on business for 4 days and was very busy with friends this weekend. I have had zero contact with my W until a text from her yesterday that she would be dropping of the kids a little late. She is always late dropping them off, so I just replied that I was used to this. I feel being late is a very selfish act and shows tremendous lack of respect.
So, for the week, she took the kids out of town to a cabin on a lake for M, T, and W. Thur she flew to another town to see a friend of hers. My son did not want to go, so he stayed at the cabin with gpa n gma. Daughter flew on plane with W. Dogs stayed at her house and she had a neighbor friend come by and feed them. they stayed in the house the entire time and crapped all over. Its tough to leave two big dogs in the house all day and night by themselves. One of the dogs goes back and forth between our homes on the same schedule as the kids. She never asked me to watch the dogs for her for the weekend.
I find it incredibly selfish that she whipped over to see one of her friends on the week she has the kids. We each get the kids for one entire week during the summer, and to leave our son behind is amazing to me. She never does anything alone with the kids and it's always under the 'cover' of being with her friends, and the kids tag along.
I also find it amazing that she didnt offer for our son to come back and stay with me this past weekend. That really blows me away. And to leave the dogs in the house all weekend speaks volumes that she did not want me to know what they were doing this weekend. Maybe she does have some guilt on her behavior.
