her reassuring me that she doesn't have any desire to 'make it work'. She has tried and tried and it just doesn't work for us to be together.
Nothin new here buddy.
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her reassuring me that she doesn't have any desire to 'make it work'. She has tried and tried and it just doesn't work for us to be together.
Nothing new here either.
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She prays for me every day because she wants me to be happy
yeah, ok... whatever.
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She says 'we' need to sell the house and live within 'our' means. I asked her if she knows what the electric bill is, or the water bill. She says "no, because you don't tell me". She doesn't ask. Then she says "I try to give you money when I can"
No, you determine if the house needs to be sold or if she needs to simply move out. It is up to you whether that house stays with you adn is within your means...not her. You have kids in high school who may not want to relocate and you do what YOU can afford to do.
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When I say I see marriage as a covenant she says we have different beliefs.
Nothing new here either. Her beliefs are based on what suits her actions, simple as that. Beliefs by the MLC/WAS are simply justifications and no more than that.
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As far as the lesson we are teaching the girls, I said it is 'don't fight for you marriage, abandon your husband when it gets too tough', she says "no, it's that sometimes after you try long enough, you have to move on with your life."
Set yourself up for that one buddy. If they were thinking about the lessons and affects on the kids, they wouldn't do this crap. You asked for her to spank you and she obliged.
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She admits that she's dating and it is part of her 'finding her true self' and we're never going to be intimate again.
So she told you she is a liar. OK. She said herself the other day, no because she is married. Frank, is this ok with you? Is this within your boundaries while she lives under the same roof as you? I have said to you before how I feel about rewarding inappropriate behavior. Set your boundaries dude, don't put up with anything unacceptable to you.
