Let's step back and be reasonable on this. She is going away to see her dad, that's ok. Make a proposal that is fair and good for your daughter and offer it to her. Maybe this is an opportunity to establish a pattern of working together to bebetter coparents. Who knows, down the road you may want to go away for a weekend that is scheduled with your daughter and need her to be flexible..... Understand?
Ian
OK guys I have worked something out with BS crazy STBX. It's not the best but it's not the worst either. Thanks Ian, Goodfight, Bethie, SMW, distressed and all others I have left out. and yes Ian..I do understand. I may be an ass at times but do try to put my "stuff" to the side for D.
I will get D tomorrow and Wednesday after daycare to make up for missing Thursday and Saturday, of course this makes me get less hours but what you gonna do? I can piss her off more than she is now by making her miss her trip and maybe risk not seeing D at all this week or I can bend and get what I can this week..bend is probably a bad word to use but it's how I see it.
I am simply overwhelmed at the moment.
Ian, I'm sorry that your's is Batchitt crazy too. I have read but did not post.
got the cell phone plan changed..I am golden there!!
