That's exactly what I did Lola. I did sent her a text when I went to bed that just asked if she was awake. I got no response. I just wanted to check to see how she was doing after our phone call on Saturday, and wish her luck for her surgery today. I think what is making it rough was that I was supposed to be there to support her for this, and she told me Saturday that he will be there for her surgery.
her surgery was scheduled for 9 this morning. I sent her a text at around 7 that said I wanted to check on her to see how she was doing and that I had been thinking about her a lot this weekend. I also told her I was sending her support and prayers for her surgery. It hasn't gone through so I think she has her phone turned off today. Probably so her parents and/or new guy doesn't check her phone since she's pretty much hidden it from all of them that she still talks to me. Oh well...
I don't want to go overboard with texting/calling her, but I want to tell her that she is going to look great and that I can't wait to see her and how good she looks. The only reason I'm thinking about telling her that is that she made the comment on Saturday that all she knew was that the results of her surgery had better be appreciated. This was during the time she was telling me that physical affection with the new guy was non existant.
I'm going to wait a while before I decide to do anything.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
