You are not allowed to pop. I am very sorry to hear that things have dropped to where they are. It is unfortunate that she seems to be resorting to using the visitation against you as well. All I can say is after a month or two you will feel better, not being constantly subjected to the crazy behavior. As far as your kids are concerned I would give her a couple of opportunities to meet the agreed upon visitation. If she fails to comply open fire with legal ramifications. Even if she is crazy, you will have to be the hero and let it go.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!