I think I will try and get her to go to C with me next week to work some of this stuff out. At the moment I really don't want to deal with her or any of this bs.
I do err on the side of generous since she has the girls with her. I am not going to shortchange them for W's mistakes. CYA is always the name of the game when it comes to any interactions.
Thanks for the advice you have given.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does