I know where your daughter gets her spunk.....Lan i have always admired your direct to the point questions. Not too many folks would ask the OM question. Well, here is my answer.....I have decided a long time ago not to snoop, therefore, all I have is my gut feelings. I have to be honest, with what happened in the past, I sometimes think OM (if there ever was one / no proof other than that vacation and airport sitch....ah who am i kidding anyways....let me rephrase that....) is back in the picture and that is leeding to the human shield sitch. yesterday I had a little chat with W and It may be realted to her business but honestly she had been a pretty sexual person for the longest time. So to naswer your question Lan my gut says the OM may be lurking again. So what do I do? Wait it out? Snoop around and try to catch her? I could sure use ten minutes. I now find myself looking at woman at the supermarket in ways that i never did in a long time.....