Letting God Take Control Part 16

[glamgirl]

Ok h came over today. I called him while at work and asked if he had fixed lunch and sure enough he did. I stopped by during my break.

We ran a few errands after work and then h took me and my d4 out to dinner. S19 and s6 stayed home. We had a nice dinner. H is excited for his trip and starting his new job today. He did say that he preferred not to travel, but it's part of the training.

Overall, we had good interactions again. He did bring up getting a new car for me again, and a washing machine and a new bed for us. He even said maybe it would help him sleep better. Hmmmmm does that mean he plans on sleeping in it?

Now my h is a planner, so it's not like we are going to rush out and buy a car for me today. This is his plans down the road. I think he just gets excited about talking about it and maybe wants me to know of his plans. My vehicle is fine now, I just think h wants to show me that he is thinking of me and cares.

H did the laundry for the kids, cleaned up around the house, gave the kids a bath and then said glam do you want to take a shower. I was like sure! Nice romantic shower with a candle lit. It seems h is enjoying this!

H mentioned while we were showering that he would like to go to a movie and dinner for our anniversary. I said that would be nice.

No r talk, no talk of asking him to come home, just listened to him attentiively. The hard part is walking him to the door and hugs and kisses and then wave goodbye. That part is so old.

Any suggestions on how to cope with the goodbye at the end? It just seems so permanent.

PH how is your work going? It sounded like you were having a rough week.