I truly believe that H is ill----this MLC crap is a chronic illness. If only we could treat it like any other................I don't know the prognosis yet, but I'm still standing, and giving DB another chance. I declared that I am starting over with DB (effective yesterday). I thought that magical anniversary was today, but now that I know it was really yesterday (read it on my own sig)-------------it must be fate.
Hi TCBTE,
It is an illness. Remember that you are the sane one, the strong one, the one who knows what she wants and wants to do the moral thing by keeping your family together and valuing your commitment and vows to your H.
HE is the one who is confused and mentally ill. (At least that's what I tell myself about my H.) Continually remind yourself of that. It will help eleviate the blame on yourself, and it will give you compassion for your H's mental issues.
Be strong. My D starts school in two weeks, so I can relate to the fact about when that happens, I will be able to concentrate on myself more.
Good luck!
M 39 H 34 D 6 M almost 8 years T 11 years Bomb: 6/5/08
