Sooners, Steelers is right, you may not see movement for months and months. Keep planting the seeds.

I know that it wassn't until about 18 months into this that h started to turn his ship this way if you can even call it that.

Your efforts may go undetected for a long time, but even if w doesn't return you can walk away and say I did all I can and feel good inside that you tried.

Stay the course and don't get discouraged. Your w may see your efforts, but will not say anything.

Have you read the 5 languages of love or something like that? It may give you some insight into what her preferred language is and you can try to appeal to that.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"