Welocme back. I have found, as I had posted to you before, that leading the Spartan life with minimum alcohol has been a Godsend for me in this time. You're right about the 20's and 30's;ugh!
I spend 5 days a week in the gym these days, and it is a shield of solitude against the craziness and dysfunction of my W. and two daughters.
You sound great, but I would guess you miss being a "family". You have to miss being with your boys every waking moment. I know I do/