ok ok good calls on the questions. I was just going on the perspective that instead of my wife divorcing me or moving out, she just decided to start cheating. I realize not every WAW is "in the wrong"

I am not really sure how she feels about me other than a part time friend. I try to distance myself AND be there for her when she honestly truly needs me.

M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
All you need is love