...I've been reading around the boards. It struck me how crazy it is to keep hanging on for a guy who hasnt even wanted to see me for 2 1/2 weeks and he lives up the road...will be 3 by the time we do meet to sign this lease (if he ever agrees to). I must be insane. I think I give up. I tried, hard, but you cant make someone love you.

My Mum said, "I hope he's happy with his decision, its a pretty damn big one. He's miserable and selfish and I hope he likes what he sees when he looks in the mirror, as he's not the man I knew, he's not a nice person anymore and just does what suits him. He uses people, friends and he's used you."

I think she may have a point.