Having seen yourself slip down the pecking order in your W list of priorities and she now uses D7 as a human shield to avoid intimacy do you have a feeling that there is an OM or such like distractions, or is just the fact that her business has taken off and she is totally immersing herself in that. What are your instincts telling you. I know in my sitch when there was an OM W would avoid all contact with me and she would even cover up so I could not see any naked flesh whatsoever.
If there is no OM then you just need to follow the advise of SMW and go about and create your own happiness, do some things for you, just as we would advise anyone to do in the early phase of their sitch's
Take care
Lanzo
PS funny story for you.
D6 and W have been sharing a bed at the IL's while our house is being renovated. Like in your sitch D6 now sees sleeping with W as her place and guards it jealously. This weekend when I stayed over I put D6 in the spare room after she fell asleep and I slept with W. Well early in the morning D wakes up and was a bit miffed to find herself put out so she came into our room slapped me on the head and said "you've got 10 minutes then we're swapping places". I couldn't believe that coming from a 6 year old, but it did make me laugh. Anyway lets say I used my 10 minutes wisely.
