7) if you have a young child together, and I'm sure you considered staying for their sake, were they the deciding factor in coming back, or were your spouse's changes the reason ? none of the above
I think this question is based on FEAR. If my W decides to work on R, one of the reasons may be the children, but I think the main reason is she noticed the changes, and realizes that H is willing to change for a better R. Do not let fear control you. If W comes back, be grateful and work on the R.
I have lost count of the number of books I have read. I am practicing (and hopefully turning to habit) things that are making me a better person (and hopefully a better husband sometime in the future). I have been told by several people that my W is stuck and that I am moving forward. We all operate on our own timeliness, and we need to be patient, keep growing and living.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
