LoL Jen!! I know...actually the funny thing was that he was trying to pressure me to get prego fast and I put the breaks on it....I was a bit scared..just started a new job that had no disability insurance and we live in a small apartment. Oh well we'll never know what he was really thinking because I know he will never say.
Lola - Thank you!! I know I am going to have hope off of those little gestures for now and the longer that we continue even just the chit chat with out arguing, I'll take as improvement.