You might get more help if your questions are less confrontational, & more neutral.
I think the questions are valid, at least from the LBS perspective. But after reading them from the WAS perspective (who the questions are being asked) I understand SC's concerns...
So, how about:
1) is there anything your husband did or said to get you to realize what you were doing was wrong?
Changed to:
1) What actions and words (that your husband used) were important in helping develop your new relationship with him?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
