I loved that Abbey! Have him earn warmth and muppet convos. Brilliant.

Ali - Thank you so much for your earlier post. You did open my eyes to something I hadn't realized.

I'm not going to rehash everything I said but I agree fully with Abbey. Detach. It's not going to hurt him, it may even make him more curious about you, but it will help you to rebuild your sense of self. It will give you balance.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!